My mom’s ashes were buried with my father on Dec. 4th, 2015. I kept just a pinch of them to put in the ocean…where her two daughters rest. I put those ashes–in a pewter container the size of a matchbox–in the water on July 27, 2016. We were sailing at a beautiful spot in the British Virgin Islands with Jost Van Dyke to our left, Tortola (Long Bay) to our right, and Sandy Cay (ironically) on our bow. Will try to attach a photo.